Thomas, who is waist deep in books and papers while studying for his PhD comprehensive exams, asks:

How would you characterise the current treatment of ambiguity in identity studies? What are the communicative implications for this treatment?

I have no idea, but maybe you can tell me what the communicative implications of this YouTube video are.

The lovely Geggie wants to know...

How did Elliott find you?

I found Elliott at work over thirteen years ago. I worked in a garden center and when I moved a pallet of lawn mowers, there was Elliott, his mama and his two siblings. I held Elliott in the palm of my hand and that was that. He had me at "meow."

Alden asks:

Sink, swim or float?

I'd like to say swim, but I know how lazy I am so float seems more realistic.

Of course, Daniel can't just ask ONE question but asks me a zillion ones. He's a demanding beyotch like that. *air kisses*

I think I'll just answer the main one.

I wanna know, or have the archive link to, your full 'coming out' chronicles.

Well, I blogged a bit about this last year on National Coming Out Day. What I can add to that is I was a bit of a late bloomer with coming out. I didn't come out until after college. The first person I came out to was myself really. I was sitting in a chair, alone in a room and I just spoke the words out loud, "I'm gay." Months later I came out to a friend of mine. She responded, "Well, why didn't you just say so?"

Kyle wants to know...

will you be my slave?

Kyle. I want to make sure you pay attention and understand my answer. Are you ready?

No.

Next, he asks:

wouldn't you agree that parker is the hottest thing running when it comes to felines?

Looking through your blog, I only find ONE picture of Parker. And she's hiding behind a curtain. This suggests to me she's not that hot.

Elliott on the other hand, is smokin'.

Thanks to everyone for your questions, your comments and for reading my posts all month during this NaBloPoMo madness. It was fun.