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November 06, 2008

Unconstitutional

Like so many of you, my feelings about Election Day are bittersweet. I don't think I've ever felt so emotionally invested in the democratic process before. Tuesday night's historic victory brings tears to my eyes. Change is in the air and it's palpable.

But the pride I have in our country is tempered with the losses of anti-gay marriage constitutional amendments in California, Florida and my state, Arizona. I have been reading and listening to your anger and sadness for a couple days and I am right there with you.

Reportedly, $73 million dollars were raised by both sides of Proposition 8 in California. Think about that dollar amount. Seventy-three MILLION dollars. I just don't know how to wrap my head around that amount. Think of all the charities and non-profit organizations who could benefit from just a small piece of $73 million. How much of New Orleans could be rebuilt with $73 million? How many hungry families could be fed? How many American citizens could $73 million in donations help?

Supporters of Prop 8 waged a campaign of fear and bigotry fueled by lies largely funded by the Catholic and Mormon churches. When I was a boy, my view of churches was that they existed to help their communities. They were the ones who helped out in a crisis. They were the ones that feed and clothed the poor. They were the ones who offered assistance amidst tragedies.

Over the years, these churches have changed their focus, zeroing in on the divisive culture wars that are tearing our country apart. Instead of serving their communities and teaching humility and charity, they have chosen to teach intolerance and discrimination by lying and using scare tactics.

I have a message for all who supported California's Proposition 8, Arizona's Proposition 102 and Florida's Proposition 2.

Gay marriage will happen.

It is going to be reality and there is nothing — NOTHING — you can do to stop it. You can spend all the money you have and tell all the lies you want to slow it down, but mark my words, one day, every citizen in this country – gay or straight – will have equal rights for all. Every single one of us.

It will happen.

So enjoy your celebration, but trust that change is coming. No matter how much money, influence or power you may have today, it won't matter.

We aren't going away. You will not silence us. We will continue to fight and fight and fight some more. For we are fighting the good fight. And that's exactly what this is. The good fight. And we will win.

Believe it.

Comments

Amen.

You put that so very well. Thank you.

Someone much more intelligent than me once said that if a section of our society is declined their civil rights, than all of us are.

I tend to agree.

I read this on NPR just yesterday and thought it particularly apropos:

"In an expanding universe, time is on the side of the outcast. Those who once inhabited the suburbs of human contempt find that without changing their address they eventually live in the metropolis."
~ Quentin Crisp

Straight Guy Comments

It is very sad to see such close minded FU@&S out there still exist. But remember America made a big step forward Tuesday with more white people voting for Obama than Kerry. So we will continue to knock down hurdle after hurdle and when those A holes called me to vote yes for prop 102, I said "Why do you feel it is necessary to stop 2 people that want to get married NOT get married, I dont have any issues at all with it and I was raised Catholic, that doesnt mean I have to believe in every god damn word that is spoken from a priest or in a book, I also all ready voted NO, because I do NOT have a problem with 2 people being married no matter their sexuality" ---- Thanks for your time she said and hung up. My wife got the same call just this Monday, she said she felt really bad because she told them to F off and its really f ing stupid that we are worried about this shit with all the REAL problems in the world. So there is a straight guys view for you. I know it sucks, but like B said keep up the good fight and know in your hearts sometime soon you will be given the rights that should exist for everyone that wants to get married. The America as we know it is starting to change, some people just take a little more time to come around.

I find it hard to respect people who religions makes them believe that wearing magic underpants or drinking the blood of Christ makes them better than other people.

Very eloquently said B.

Out of my kids mouths: "Don't worry Mom. Our generation will right this wrong."

I will trust as I continue to fight.

Doesn't matter to me anymore. I give up. I'm going back to Australia, where at least they have same-sex immigration. I may not have a job, but I can be with my partner...not to mention affirmed as a human being.

Well put, Brian. I'll fight with you shoulder to shoulder.

They won't silence us, but I like the idea of buying a silencer so they don't hear us coming.

What? I'm violent-minded. But you already knew that.

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